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Hi everyone! I am so grateful to be talking to you all about this subject. This was something that I was not sure that I would find, but I am so happy that I did. My husband is the most amazing, incredible and inspiring person that I have ever met. It took a while to find him, and we have had our share of issues, but we have built one of the strongest relationships I have seen in my life.
I am going to break up the love videos into two parts; finding love and being in love. Since step one is finding love, let’s start there. I have always been fascinated with the concept of finding love. I made several mistakes during this process, and I hope that you can learn from my mistakes, and are able to find love quickly and easily.
The first and most important step in this process is to write it down exactly what you want. Be very specific when you are describing your perfect mate. When I did this, I got REALLY specific. I said that I wanted a man who was taller than me, brown, hair, green eyes, very intelligent, and funny. I even went as far as writing that I wanted someone who was good with money, has good credit, and did not care that mine was not great at that time. The universe cannot give you what you want unless you know what it is. Once you finish writing down your soul mates description let’s talk about some basic dating laws.
Every love story starts with a first date. Let’s start there. If you find somebody you are interested in, and you are a woman, do not be afraid to make the first move. It is now 2017 and it is totally acceptable to ask a man for his phone number or even ask him on the first date, but after this the chase stops. You must now be the person being chased. If you are a man, and you find someone that you are also interested in, pursue them as well.
The next law is the, “texting one for one” rule. Never and I mean never send two text messages or make two phone calls in a row. He sends a message you send a message you get the idea. More than this makes a person feel like you’re a stage three clinger and they will run from you as fast as they can.
Next, keep it in your pants as long as possible I honestly would like you to make it until your engaged or married, but at minimum three months. After you give it up, people have trouble focusing on anything but that, and we want them to get to know what a great amazing person you are.
The last law is innocent until proven guilty! Do not bring in any of your past emotional baggage into your new relationship. Let it go! Once you meet the man/woman of your dreams. If this is the man/woman that is worth all your trust and love, you are not going to want push him away with crazy questions, looking through his phone etc. If he/she cheats on you or betrays your trust, move on. Don’t waste time! If someone cheats, lies, steals whatever it is that you may deem as unforgivable, just be done. There is no point in trying to make it work because you are always going to come back to the conclusion that is not going to.
The last piece of advice that I can give to you today is when you know you know. I used to hear people talk about this all the time, and it is so true. When you know that you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with someone, you just know. It’s not a maybe or you think, it is a definite yes. Once you have found your prince charming it is time to move on to the next step. Thank you all for reading, don’t forget to like and share, and I will talk to you soon!