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3 Signs He Is The One

3 Signs He Is The One

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With the national divorce rate at fifty percent it is intimidating to even think about getting married. Here are some helpful tips that will help you decide if  you have found “The One”. If you ask just about anyone how they knew that their husband or wife was going to be the one that they would spend the rest of their lives with, they often get the same answer, “You just know.” O.k. that sounds great, but how do you know. There are definitely a few ways you can tell.

The first and most important way is that he is your best friend.  You can talk to him about anything. He may not agree with you, but you definitely feel comfortable enough to share secrets or your deepest desires with him. He is also a person that you can constantly be around and rarely be annoyed. Most likely you will have your moments of being annoyed, but most of the time it is smooth sailing. This should also be a person that you love to go on adventures with. Whether it is going to a movie or a hike, he is your right hand man.

Second, you can see how your lives are going to fit together. This includes having common goals relating to marriage, children, career, where you want to live. Before you get married it is important to know what each others “non-negotiable” life goals are, and to decide what compromises can be made, if any. If you have always dreamed of having a football team of kids, and children is not his thing, this could be recipe for disaster. Life may not happen the way that you intend it to, but it is good to start out with a common objective.

Third, you cannot imagine your life without him. Unfortunately, life happens and there are some circumstances that may not keep you together forever. However, this point you should not be exploring what it would be like if he was gone because you cannot imagine a world in which he doesn’t exist.

One last tip: When it’s your time to walk to the alter and say your vows, take them seriously. I know too many people that have made mistakes and ended up losing the love of their lives.

Also, if you are seeking and have not found your knight in shinning armor, don’t lose hope! He is just as eager to meet you as you are to meet him. It is just not the right time. Do not get discouraged and definitely do not settle.

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Happily Ever After


Yay!!!!! You have found love and it is time for you and your partner to frolic through a field of daisies leading you to a place where you will forever live happily ever after. Right? Not necessarily. This is when the work begins. Thanks to Fairytales and Disney movies we are all brought up to believe this. I am not saying that you won’t live happily ever after, but I am saying that you might have to put in some work to get there. This going to require you brushing up on your communication skills, draw lines in the sand, and not be crazy.

 

Having outstanding communication skills can make or break your marriage. Talking to your partner about issues that arise is the best thing you can do for your relationship. Also, admitting that you have a relationship problems is the first step to fix them. If you fix the issues immediately, you can continue to have a healthy and happy relationship. If you don’t solve these problems early on, then the issues will build up and become so big that it can end your marriage.

 

What are the problems that people can have in marriage? Every relationship is different so every relationship will have different issues. The first point of tension that came up in our marriage was money. By this way this is common. Money issues are the leading cause of divorce. So, we got married and joined our accounts together because that’s what married couples do right? This is a good option for some people but not everyone. Definitely not for us. We kept having disagreements about how each other were spending our money. I didn’t understand who would spend $1700 on a gun and my husband did not see the point of spending so much money on cosmetics. Option one, we could continue to fight or we could fix it. We then admitted that the way that we were spending the money was not going to work. This is where you draw your line in the sand.

 

We decided that when we were dating we had separate accounts and we did not have any disagreements. So, that’s what we did. He has his account I have mine. We both can spend whatever we decide is good for us. Fortunately, we resolved our problem on the first try. However, the first idea does not work try something else.

 

Which is my next point; don’t be crazy. Albert Einstein defines insanity as, “Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.” Basically, of it’s not working try something else. Obviously, relationships are a pretty intricate subject. We will discuss more about marriage and relationships in future blogs, but these techniques are a great place to start. Thank you all for watching. Please like and share everywhere!

Much Love, ❤️

Simply Brandi Olson


 

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Hi everyone! I am so grateful to be talking to you all about this subject. This was something that I was not sure that I would find, but I am so happy that I did. My husband is the most amazing, incredible and inspiring person that I have ever met. It took a while to find him, and we have had our share of issues, but we have built one of the strongest relationships I have seen in my life.

I am going to break up the love videos into two parts; finding love and being in love. Since step one is finding love, let’s start there. I have always been fascinated with the concept of finding love. I made several mistakes during this process, and I hope that you can learn from my mistakes, and are able to find love quickly and easily.

The first and most important step in this process is to write it down exactly what you want. Be very specific when you are describing your perfect mate. When I did this, I got REALLY specific. I said that I wanted a man who was taller than me, brown, hair, green eyes, very intelligent, and funny. I even went as far as writing that I wanted someone who was good with money, has good credit, and did not care that mine was not great at that time. The universe cannot give you what you want unless you know what it is. Once you finish writing down your soul mates description let’s talk about some basic dating laws.

Every love story starts with a first date. Let’s start there. If you find somebody you are interested in, and you are a woman, do not be afraid to make the first move. It is now 2017 and it is totally acceptable to ask a man for his phone number or even ask him on the first date, but after this the chase stops. You must now be the person being chased. If you are a man, and you find someone that you are also interested in, pursue them as well.
The next law is the, “texting one for one” rule. Never and I mean never send two text messages or make two phone calls in a row. He sends a message you send a message you get the idea. More than this makes a person feel like you’re a stage three clinger and they will run from you as fast as they can.
Next, keep it in your pants as long as possible I honestly would like you to make it until your engaged or married, but at minimum three months. After you give it up, people have trouble focusing on anything but that, and we want them to get to know what a great amazing person you are.

The last law is innocent until proven guilty! Do not bring in any of your past emotional baggage into your new relationship. Let it go! Once you meet the man/woman of your dreams. If this is the man/woman that is worth all your trust and love, you are not going to want push him away with crazy questions, looking through his phone etc. If he/she cheats on you or betrays your trust, move on. Don’t waste time! If someone cheats, lies, steals whatever it is that you may deem as unforgivable, just be done. There is no point in trying to make it work because you are always going to come back to the conclusion that is not going to.

The last piece of advice that I can give to you today is when you know you know. I used to hear people talk about this all the time, and it is so true. When you know that you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with someone, you just know. It’s not a maybe or you think, it is a definite yes. Once you have found your prince charming it is time to move on to the next step. Thank you all for reading, don’t forget to like and share, and I will talk to you soon!

 

Much Love,